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Sonnet 13

O! that you were your self; but, love you are

No longer yours, than you yourself here live:

Against this coming end you should prepare,

And your sweet semblance to some other give:

So should that beauty which you hold in lease

Find no determination; then you were

Yourself again, after yourself’s decease,

When your sweet issue your sweet form should bear.

Who lets so fair a house fall to decay,

Which husbandry in honour might uphold,

Against the stormy gusts of winter’s day

And barren rage of death’s eternal cold?

O! none but unthrifts. Dear my love, you know,

You had a father: let your son say so.

What it's about

The speaker urges the young man to have a child as the only real way to cheat death. Beauty fades; time erases us. But a child preserves the father's likeness across generations—it's the one form of immortality available to mortals. The argument shifts from philosophy to something more personal: your father gave you life; honor that by doing the same.

In plain English

You're not really yourself anymore, because you're mortal—you only possess yourself while you're alive. You should prepare for that end by passing your beauty on to a child. That way your loveliness won't vanish; you'll live on through your child, who'll inherit your face.

Why would anyone let a beautiful house crumble when good management could keep it standing against winter and decay? Only wastrels would do that. You had a father, and you should give your son the chance to say he had you too.

Lines that stick

  • O! that you were your self; but, love you are / No longer yours, than you yourself here live
  • Who lets so fair a house fall to decay, / Which husbandry in honour might uphold
  • You had a father: let your son say so.

Themes

  • procreation
  • mortality
  • beauty
  • time
  • legacy
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