In sooth, I know not why I am so sad: It wearies me; you say it wearies you; But how I caught it, found it, or came by it, What stuff ’tis made of, whereof it is born, I am to learn; And such a want-wit sadness makes of me, That I have much ado to know myself.
Honestly, I don’t know why I’m so sad: It’s exhausting to me; you say it’s exhausting to you; But how I got it, found it, or came to have it, What it’s made of, where it came from, I still don’t know; And this confusing sadness makes me so unclear, That I can barely recognize myself.
Launcelot Gobbo · Act 1, Scene 1
Antonio opens the play trapped in sadness he cannot name or locate, puzzled by his own emotional state as if it belongs to someone else. This line holds because it establishes a man at the mercy of forces he doesn't understand—a merchant who cannot account for himself. It suggests that identity itself is uncertain, and that some people are simply made for loss in ways they can never quite explain.
Let it be so: the first inter’gatory That my Nerissa shall be sworn on is, Whether till the next night she had rather stay, Or go to bed now, being two hours to day: But were the day come, I should wish it dark, That I were couching with the doctor’s clerk. Well, while I live I’ll fear no other thing So sore as keeping safe Nerissa’s ring.
Let it be so: the first question That my Nerissa will be sworn to answer is, Whether, until the next night, she’d rather stay, Or go to bed now, with two hours left in the day: But if the day comes, I’d wish it were dark, So I could be lying down with the doctor’s clerk. Well, as long as I live, I’ll fear nothing more Than keeping Nerissa’s ring safe.
Launcelot Gobbo · Act 5, Scene 1
Gratiano agrees to answer Nerissa's questions about whether she'd rather stay awake or go to bed, then pivots to jokes about sleeping with the 'doctor's clerk'—not knowing she was that clerk. The speech lands because it reveals how the lovers are now bound by shared secrets and playful deceits. Gratiano's fear of losing Nerissa's ring shows that love and loyalty are measured in small, concrete promises kept.